I know what some of y'all r thinking: "Why the Hell not? That would b perfect! My own 'Private Dancer!' " Well, life isn't a Tina Turner song. If u REALLY want 2 date a stripper, u need 2 know a few things.
First off, there's ALOT of drama w/ strippers. Some have been through their share of life, and then some. Some, believe it or not, have low self-esteem and view themselves poorly. (That's something I never understood. In order 4 a stripper 2 get on the stage in the first place and dance nude or semi-nude in front of a bunch of overly critical strangers takes a tremendous amount of guts, IMHO.) Some don't like men, other than 4 the $$$. (This is truly some bullsh*t. I'll go more in detail about this in another post.) Some truly have major issues. Do u really want 2 get in the middle of some sh*t that has absolutely nothing 2 do w/ u? Then u have 2 deal w/ your girl giving lap-dances in the club's VIP Room. Do u really want 2 envision "your baby" grinding in the lap of a stranger w/ a hard-on? Yikes! Then there's the simple fact that she's dancing in the first place. Many guys start dating a stripper, then get mad when she only does her job. U met her while she was dancing, did u think she was gonna quit just because you're dating? Especially if you're not picking up the extra slack in income that she would lose.
Another thing is the money. Most likely, your girl is making more $$$ than u r. Some guys don't know how 2 handle that. Some dancers go "both ways" and might not cheat on u w/ a guy, but will b w/ another woman (most likely another dancer) w/ a quickness surpassed only by "The Flash" of comic book lore. That's another thing some guys can't handle. They're thinking, "Why would she even THINK about going w/ a woman when she has ME?" They do, bruh, they do. Now I'm not discouraging anyone (or am I) from dating a stripper, I'm just saying that there r a few things that u need 2 know before u enter into a relationship w/ a stripper. I've known strippers that NEVER (at least as far as I know) cheated on their man and went straight home 2 that man after work. Believe it or not, this has actually happened w/ many dancers that I know. They were faithful and after making their $$$ and starting anew in something different, eventually left dancing altogether.
So if u REALLY want 2 date a stripper, well now u know what u MAY go through. But 4 the strippers that don't respect their man (and this can happen w/ ANY woman, regardless of their profession) well, u have been warned!